So 18 years have passed since your 21st birthday and your going about your average day when out of nowhere you get a call from someone you knew back when you were 21.
It’s an old girlfriend calling to tell you that one of your last dates 19 years ago
turned into your now 18 year old son. So many things go through your head.
Why now? All those reasons from just wanting to make it right to is it a squeeze for money, or what?
You’ve worked hard for the past 18b years trying to make a life for yourself and you have a good job in a company that might as well be yours and you certainly don’t want to screw any of that up. At the same time your pissed because you’ve missed out on your son and his entire childhood and why?
As a decent man you know in your heart that if in fact this is your blood son you owe it to him and you and your parents to have him in your life. No matter how upset you might be that no one ever reached out to you before about this there is no time to waste energy on the past. The past is the past and we have little or no control over that. It’s the future that we
have the ability to forge.
I told my friend, first I would get a paternity test just so that none of you are misled.
How horrible would it be for you alleged son if he started bonding with you and after a short period of time you all found out it was a lie? Paternity test first.
If it shows the young man is your son, find out who he is. Find out everything you can about him before you divulge everything about you. After all not matter what his age you are still the father. Then do everything you can to steer him in a better path to a better life.
GOD forbid you you refute your son and then 30 years latere find out that you’ve missed out on his love and the love of his children and they of your love as well.
Listen to your hear and never forget that Love is Truth and both are GOD.